I need advice on dealing with rude people. I went to the Post Office today, two hours before I was to ?

by admin on January 25, 2012

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{ 7 comments }

Jenny J January 25, 2012 at 4:37 pm: every ones patience gets tested at some time, frustrating as it is, I don’t think there is much you can really do other than grin and bare it,
Princess Leia January 25, 2012 at 5:15 pm: …My ADD kicked in about a third of the way thru your question & I drifted off… sheesh!

But really, I would just kinda try to get her attention and kindly tell her that I couldn’t see… sometimes people respond to kind requests. It’s better to try that first than to make an indirect sarcastic comment, people don’t respond too kindly to those. You were there to have a good time, it’s just not worth getting all angry and upset when there could be a simpler more polite way to go about it.

See how my 1st comment made you feel? That’s probably how that chick felt too.
Alicia January 25, 2012 at 5:53 pm: You could have asked/told her nicely what you were thinking, and if that didn’t work, I would have gotten rude with her. But, that’s just me.
rcpaden January 25, 2012 at 6:27 pm: Fussing would actually only make you feel worse. There are inconsiderate people everywhere. Fussing at them does no good. Usually nothing will make them change. So just learn to live with people. It is so sad that people cannot be considerate of others. We would all be happier.
Tomack N January 25, 2012 at 6:37 pm: you know the fatal mistake was going to the post office they call it going postal for a reason. on the concert side next time get a guard and say this drunk girl next you is trying to start a fight and she scares you the guard will remove her more then likely because she is inclined to protest him and push him away which is a sure fire way to get rid of them.
Mike O January 25, 2012 at 7:37 pm: Ethics. Sometimes I think they’re not learned, they’re genetics. Last major concert I went to was on my B-day, went early to get seats up front to see Bob Seegar (sp). Well, I got up front, only to have the guy in front of me put his girl on his shoulders (crap), then have her proceed to dump her beer all over me (double crap).

Some folk just take an unconscious path thru life. Can you change them? Probably not. Do you want to avoid them? As much as you can.

I’m glad you found a man that is aware of his/your environment. Just write it off…
ansirs January 25, 2012 at 8:28 pm: Hi, In a perfect world you would not even have to ‘stare’ at someone to let them know they have transgressed, they would be aware of their actions and thoughtful of discomfitting others…

Alas, this is NOT a perfect world, so what I have found is that when someone is trying to be annoying then ignore it as if it is a compliment they are paying you etc, these type of people usually won’t bother continuing if they are not getting any reward for their actions and in fact they themselves become the annoyed ones as their actions have not yeilded the desired results.

Of course there some who are so dense that this course of action is lost on them, then you will unfortunately have to grow some balls and take a stand for your rights (or hopefully someone with the balls will stand up for you, what or where was your boyfriend during all this? or concert security?)

I suggest attending some assertiveness training classes.

Good Luck.